Last night, even though it was basically the same as it always is, was a rather interesting sex session. I was surprised when he said that he was willing in the first place, because he had been complaining all day that he was exhausted and sore. So, being the nice girlfriend that I am, I grabbed the moisturizer and gave him a stellar massage – starting with his back and working my way down to his ass and his legs.
After the massage, he wanted to watch porn. At first, I was kind of upset by it, because if we started watching porn we’d be up half the night doing that before actualy getting down to anything. Luckily, he picked one that hardly held our interest for longer than 5 minutes and soon after we were jumping right into action.
I was much quieter last night than I have been in a really long time, so that was the first interesting change. No idea why I was quieter, but I was and it worked for me. The thing that was most interesting to me was that, on the scale of sexual encounters and their level of greatness, this one started out pretty badly. No rhythm, couldn’t get comfortable in our usual position without modifying it, a little bit awkward from the both of us in the beginning.
Sometimes, I really hate having the uncoordinated sex and other times, it just gets me more excited. Last night was definitely a more excited night. He’s really gotten into the concept of me cumming when he’s still having sex with me. I don’t think he can actually tell that I’m orgasming, but he insists on me “cumming on his cock”. It makes it a little trickier, especially when we’re in missionary, but it definitely feels really good when it happens.
Then, my absolute favorite and most memorable part of the night was when he said, “If you’re a good girl and cum on my cock, I’ll be a bad boy and cum in your pussy!”. It still just makes me shiver with extreme delight. First of all, I love it when he calls me a good girl or mentions me being a good girl during sex. I don’t know why this particular choosing of words gets to me as much as it does, but there is nothing he could say that can bring me closer to orgasm,than those two words. Secondly, that bad boy part…. mmmm!!!
Now that he’s gotten so into this “cumming on his cock” thing, I’ve had to get tricky with the way that I rub my clit during sex. I hate the feeling of my left hand, which pulls my clit nice and taut so my right hand can do it’s thing, against his stomach when he’s on top. I’m so worried that my bony knuckles will hurt him and then it becomes distracting from the pleasure I want to be feeling. So I have to figure out how to get my clit pulled back and stay there during his thrusting, while my right hand does it’s usual thing. He has gotten really good at backing off and letting me get set up and then thrusting mostly with his hips, so that he can keep right up against my clit. It still takes me longer than usual to orgasm though.
Within what seemed like just a few seconds after adjusting for me to play, I was cumming very hard and moments later, before I was even done my orgasm, he was cumming as well. I love the way he pulls me close to him while he’s orgasming and I love that he won’t move off of me until he’s sure we’re both done. We fell right to sleep as soon as we were done. He rolled his way and I cuddled into him nice and tight and he drifted right off to sleep.
I, however, was up for another two hours tossing and turning in bed, which seems to be becoming very common for me. Especially since it’s warmer and he throws heat like crazy in his sleep. Once I did fall asleep though, it was probably one of the deepest sleeps I’ve experienced in forever and being that he was an hour late for work this morning, it was probably a deep sleep for him too. I love when the sex that we have, tuckers us out enough that we have really great sleeps that night. It makes it that much more worth it!
I probably won’t get sex again for another 3 or 4 days – hard to say. He’s become really attentive to my need for sex and while I don’t get it all the time that I want it (because than I’d be getting it ALL THE TIME!), he’s definitely stepping up his game and giving it to me more often. I imagine though, the next session won’t be until his next days off. In the meantime, I’ll just keep reliving the good girl/bad boy part of the night ;)