A couple posts ago, we went over an Introduction to Sexual Bucket Lists. How to make one, what to include and what it should look like. Today, I’d like to give you over 100 ideas of things to add to your own bucket list. If you have more ideas you think should be added to this list, please leave your comments below.
NOTE: When “Have Sex” is used, it’s not necessarily sexual intercourse. You could choose to have oral sex, non-penetration sex, or any of the other definitions of sex that you can think of. Remember from the Intro to Sexual Bucket Lists that what you put on your list is entirely up to you, so be sure to put what you want, not just the idea listed here.
Ways to Have Sex
- Have a male, female, male (MFM, MMF) threesome
- Have a female, male, female (FMF, FFM) threesome
- Have sex with 4 or more people
- Have sex with a person of the same gender
- Have sex with another person, while your partner watches
- Watch your partner have sex with another person
- Have sex with your partner, while someone else watches
- Have anal sex
- Have very rough sex
- Have very gentle sex
- Have sex without foreplay
- Have sex standing up
- Have sex kneeling
- Have sex facing away from your partner
- Have sex facing sideways
- Have sex with most of your clothes on
- Have sex with one article of clothing on
- Have sex without kissing
- Have extremely quiet sex
- Have extremely loud sex
- Have sex with a stranger
- Have sex without orgasm
- Get your hair pulled during sex
- Have sex in an awkward/advanced position
- Change positions multiple times during sex
Places to Have Sex
- Have sex and videotape or webcam it
- Masturbate and videotape or webcam it
- Have an orgasm in front of people without them knowing
- Have sex in public
- Have sex at a movie theater
- Have sex in a car
- Have sex at a drive-thru
- Have sex in a bathroom at a night club
- Have sex on a balcony or porch
- Have sex on an airplane
- Have sex on public transit, including buses and taxi cabs
- Have sex in the shower
- Have sex on the kitchen counter/table
- Have sex at work
- Have sex in the woods
- Have sex at a concert
- Have sex for an audience
- Have sex in the snow
- Have sex on a beach
- Have sex in the bed of a pick up truck
- Have sex in an elevator
- Have cybersex
- Have sex in a church
- Have sex on a building’s roof
- Have sex in your parent’s house
Equipment to Use
- Find your favorite vibrator
- Discover a brand new dildo that you love
- Get some Ben Wa Balls and use them
- Get a Kegel Exerciser and use it
- Use a Strap-On
- Use Anal Beads
- Buy some lingerie
- Wear a cock ring
- Wear some lace, leather or latex
- Use a Butt Plug
- Wear wrist and/or ankle cuffs
- Get a blindfold on
- Wear a chastity device
- Get a corset
- Wear nipple clamps
- Purchase a mask or hood
- Use play piercing needles
- Use a flogger, whip or cane
- Buy bondage tape or medical tape
- Get a sexy pair of shoes or boots
- Use household items as kinky toys
- Wear spreader bars
- Use furniture specifically designed for sex
- Use an unconventional sex toy, such as an ice dildo
- Use a fucking machine
Learn Something New
- Become familiar with your genitals
- Go to the strippers
- Go to the strippers on amateur night and perform
- Watch porn with your partner
- Learn how to belly dance
- Take a pole dancing class
- Attend a munch
- Attend a play party
- Attend a sex-related workshop
- Attend a sex-related class
- Attend a sex-related conference, such as The Taboo Naughty but Nice Show
- Read more erotic stories
- Read more sex-related blogs
- Get an informative sex-related book
- Blog/write about your own sexuality
- Learn about the Kama Sutra
- Get erotic photographs taken of yourself
- Show your partner an erotic dance, or have them do one for you
- Learn how to have great oral sex
- Learn how to give an erotic massage
- Learn how to squirt
- Subscribe to an erotic magazine
- Trim or shave your pubic hair
- Discover the art of rope bondage
- Role Play
Kinky Fucky Time
- Have your genitals worshipped
- Have your genitals tortured
- Play with a violet wand or TENS unit
- Wear a gag
- Be put in a cage or confined
- Be humiliated or humiliate someone else
- Have your breasts whipped
- Experience sensory deprivation
- Have consensual non-consensual sex (rape play)
- Have marks left over the next day
Conversation Starters
- How many of these things have you experienced yourself?
- Which ones were already on your bucket list? Which ones are you now planning to add?
- What are some other ideas for a sexual bucket list?
March 25, 2011 at 10:37 PM
The sad thing (or good depending how you look at it) is that I did about 75% of the things listed before I was 19. However I think as I do some for the things now I have a better appreciation for them.
Great list though.
~Jess XX~
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April 28, 2012 at 2:06 AM
I did about 95% of the list already with my fiance, I’m eightteen.
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